Fluency in reading is important to success in all
school subjects. So what do you do if your child doesn’t like to read? If he
will only do the minimum required to get through his homework? With a little creativity,
you can help your child enjoy his reading more, and spend more time doing it.
Make
it fun. Purchase or borrow a stack of ‘‘fun’ books. Choose
books that will be relatively easy for your child to read. In other words,
select those books that are slightly below his level of reading ability. Choose
topics based on your child’s’ interests; baseball, horses, sleepover parties,
dinosaurs. Pick a mystery, a joke book, and books about movie stars or
athletes, even comic books. Don’t comment about the books; simply leave them
lying on a table, where your child is sure to see them. To become a great
reader, a child needs lots of practice. If you can find the types of books your
child will be interested in reading, he’ll get the pure practice he needs to
make other, more complex, reading easier.
Let him browse the library. Go at a time when you
are not rushed so that he has time to explore. Allow your child to get his own
library card. Take him to the library and teach him how to use the computers
and the wide variety of resources available.
Pick
the right computer games. Take advantage of your child’s love of computer
games to purchase those that require a lot of reading to play the game. Avoid
those that are simply computerized video games.
Encourage
bed time reading. Buy your child a bedside reading lamp or a tiny
book light. Tell him from now on, he must be in bed by a specific time (say
8:00 p.m.) and that he can either sleep or read. Most children will do anything
rather than go to sleep so there is a chance you may create anew bedtime
reading habit.
Have
reading material available. Many children will read when they are sitting alone
having a snack, or if they have a few minutes of unplanned time. Put a box of
books and magazines near the kitchen table, so that reading material is
accessible. Take books in the car and to doctor’s appointments.
Read
to your child.
Often, once children learn to read independently, parents stop reading to them.
This change of routine can be disappointing to a child who has come to love
falling asleep as you read. Older children n enjoy being read to if you pick
books that pique their interest. Select books together and make sure you pick
ones you enjoy as well, so your enjoyment will come through as you read to
them.
Check
it out. Some children don’t like to read because they have
poor eyesight or an undetected learning disability. Look for signs that there
is a problem. Does your child rub his eyes after reading? Complain of a headache?
Become easily frustrated or angry while trying to read? If you notice any of
these problems, make an appointment with your pediatrician to have your child’s
health check out, or with an optometrist fro a complete eye exam.
Excerpted
from Perfect Parenting, the Dictionary of 1,000 Tips by Elizabeth Pantley
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